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心里有你的人，总会主动找你;心里没有你的人，总是自动忽略你。其实，沉默就是答案，躲闪就是答案，不再主动就是答案，其实，你早该明白了。

People who have you in their hearts will always take the initiative to find you; People who don't have you in their hearts always ignore you automatically. In fact, silence is the answer, dodge is the answer, and no longer taking the initiative is the answer. In fact, you should have known.

人要心静，言多必失;喋喋不休不如观心自省;埋怨他人不如即听即忘。能干扰你的，往往是自己的太在意;能伤害你的，往往是自己的想不开。你若平和，无人可恨;你若不究，无人能扰。

People should be quiet, and they will lose if they talk too much; It is better to be self-conscious than to chatter endlessly; It's better to listen to others and forget them. What can interfere with you is often your own concern; What can hurt you is often your own hard work. If you are peaceful, no one hates you; If you don't investigate, no one can disturb you.

你拼尽全力，尽最大努力，起早贪黑做到的最好，可能还不如别人随便做做，因为人的智商、能力、人脉各不相同，有些差距你无法通过后天努力弥补。

You do your best, do your best, get up early and get greedy, and do it best. Maybe it's not as good as others do it casually, because people's IQ, ability and connections are different, and some gaps you can't make up through the efforts of the day after tomorrow.

希望你我都做个敢爱的人，不辜负年轻，不辜负爱情，互为奖赏，奖赏我们为了心爱的人疯狂一把的机会。互为救赎，救赎我们于乏善可陈而又平淡无奇的生活之中。

I hope you and I can both be people who dare to love, live up to our youth, love and reward each other, and reward us for the chance to go crazy for our beloved. To redeem each other, to redeem us in a lackluster and unremarkable life.