或许这个世界就是这样,很多事情都是注定好了的,就比如说,一些能够让你心动的人,但是却给不了你安全感,而那些能够给你安全感的人可是又不能带给你心动的感觉,或许对于人生来说这就是真实的答案。
Maybe this world is like this, a lot of things are doomed, for example, some people can make your heart, but can not give you a sense of security, and those who can give you a sense of security but can not bring you the feeling of heart, maybe for life, this is the real answer.
我们总是会在人生的某一个瞬间,对一件事特别执着,不管谁来说服都不能缓解你心中的执念,可是随着时间的推移,你就会发现原来曾经自己那么执着的一件事也不过如此。
We will always be in a certain moment of life, to a thing in particular persistent, no matter who to persuade can not relieve your heart obsession, but with the passage of time, you will find that they have been so persistent one thing is just so.
其实我们每个人的一生中都会经历一些糟糕的事情,可是虽然有这些糟糕的事情,但是我们依然要努力把生活过得好起来,绝不能因为遇到了糟糕的一件事就把自己的整个人生都置于糟糕之中吧!
In fact, each of us will experience some bad things in life, but although there are these bad things, but we still have to work hard to live a good life, not because of a bad thing to put their whole life in a bad!
其实,当我们自己的人生变得越来越好的时候,我们就会看淡很多很多的事情,好像就会自然而然地原谅很多人很多事,可能这就是一种心灵上的富有吧!
In fact, when our own life becomes better and better, we will see a lot of things, as if it will naturally forgive a lot of people a lot of things, may be this is a kind of spiritual wealth!
做人千万要记住不要因为总是去迁就别人而委屈了你自己,你仔细的想一想这个世界上有几个人能值得你总是去讨好,
你要知道你低姿态的时间长了,就会让别人习惯享受你这样的讨好,同时也证明了你这个人没有什么特别之处,对于人来说你也显得特别的不重要。
Person and always remember don't cry because it is always to accommodate others injustice yourself, when you can think of several people in this world is worth you always go to please,
do you want to know you a low profile in the long run, will enjoy you like please let others habits, but also proved that the man there is nothing special about you, you also seems to be especially for people is not important.