第十八章

人生最大一种痛不是失败和失去，而是没能经历自己想要经历的一切！不怨天尤人，不怨谁离你而去，一些人走远了，必然就会有一些人向你走近，随缘自在，顺其自然！生活中面对的都是现实，有多少个美好的未来，都抵不过一个温暖需求的现在！活在当下每一个真实的现在，也是在实现我们曾经幻想得到的未来。

The greatest pain in life is not failure and loss, but the failure to experience everything you want to experience! Do not blame, do not blame who left you, some people go away, there will inevitably be some people to approach you, free as fate, let nature take its course! Life is facing the reality, how many beautiful future, but a warm need for the present! Living in the present, every real present, is also realizing the future we once fantasized about.

人生有太多的诱惑，不懂得放弃，只能在诱惑的旋涡中受伤。人生有太多的欲望，不懂得放弃，就会在人生的道路上迷失方向。放弃是痛苦的，是艰难的。放弃需要勇气，要果决。放弃通过艰苦追

Life has too many temptations, do not know how to give up, can only be hurt in the whirlpool of temptation. There are too many desires in life. If you don't know how to give up, you will lose your way on the road of life. Giving up is painful and difficult. Giving up requires courage and determination. Give up through hard pursuit

人生就像一棵树，一生都在成长，一生都在成熟，开花、结果只是必然，最重要的是经历春夏秋冬、阳光雨露、风霜雨雪、春花秋实、年复一年的漫长过程。有的付出，就是生命存在的意义，最后留下的，是对过程的美好回忆。

Life is like a tree, life is growing, life is maturing, flowering and fruiting are inevitable, the most important thing is to experience the long process of spring, summer, autumn and winter, sunshine, rain and dew, wind, frost, rain and snow, spring flowers and autumn fruits, year after year. Some pay, is the meaning of life, and finally left behind, is a good memory of the process.